I said, "Do you mean to say that you can't love anybody else other than your wife?". He was quiet for a long time. I even forgot the question that i put to him half an hour earlier.
He asked me, "Why are you confusing Love with Commitment?". I looked at him questioningly. He said, "Love and Commitment are different. It is not necessary that I should love the person whom I am committed to". I was even more puzzled.
He said, "Commitment is fulfilling my responsibilities irrespective of the love I have for them. Loving is that 'extra touch', that i give them when they are in need of me."
I said," It is NOT possible. You cant do justice to LOVE and COMMITMENT by that way. You might get a call from the LOVE as well as COMMITMENT, at the same time. Which one would you choose?. You could only be with either your LOVE or COMMITMENT. So, COMMITMENT will win and LOVE will have to sacrifice. Don't you agree with me?"
I hope you guys will agree with me.
Have a rocking weekend either with your LOVE or COMMITMENT. :)
Luv u all
Uma
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I think in AND instead of OR
ReplyDeleteI try to think in abundancy
The universe is all about abundacy
if you think in choices you think in a lack of something.
There are different levels of love.
You make commitments because you love or not love.
So you act always out of love.
This is just my thought Uma.
Peace & light
Levien
I agree with your thoughts Levien. It has always been AND and not OR throughout my life. "The universe is all about abundance" - Am with you for this statement. Thanks for this heartfelt and sincere comment.
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Uma.
two witty ppl... anwering questions with questions.... :)
ReplyDelete"answering questions with questions" - Thanks Arun.
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